So Bandom is currently embroiled in a wank about warnings. Long story short - people are arguing about whether authors should warn for material (like dub-con) that might trigger someone. For a more detailed run down complete with links to all the relevant posts, see
here.
I haven't said anything for a few reasons. One, I don't have anything to add to the conversation, really. There have been people far more eloquent than I saying all the right things. Secondly, I really didn't think the wank would last this long or get this big. (yeah yeah, I know, how is my first day in fandom going and all that.) It's just that to me this seems like a no brainer. I can't understand why people aren't getting this very simple concept.
If your story contains something that is a common trigger (like rape, assault, dub-con) then you put up a warning. Because that is just
common fucking decency. If it's so important that you keep the twist a secret or whatever, then do white font or put it behind a cut. People who don't have these triggers will more than likely pass it up and will go on unspoiled. At least you're giving people the option to be informed before, unintentionally or not, you cause someone to be hurt.
I'm not going to even get into the blaming the victim that's going on in some of those posts. That's a whole other pickle that is rage inducing and I've mostly been skimming those. It makes me too upset and there's no way for me to really work that anger off at the moment.
So, in conclusion, don't be a douche nozzle. Good day, folks.